Thursday, June 5, 2008

Romance And Romantic Thoughts

Being in love is one of the greatest feelings. It is exhilarating. It is a dream, which come true for few of us. If you have not professed your love, how will the person you love know that you love him/her?

What are your outer signs that will tell the other person about your feelings? Giving. In love a person gives to make the beloved happy. If you have tried to find out what your beloved likes, you must have tried all your best to give that to him/her. You must have crossed all barriers and used all the means at your disposal to give that to him/her. Am I making sense? Let us discuss little more. For example, if you come to know that your beloved is an avid collector of coins. What will you do? If you are in true love, you will begin searching the rare coins and getting them for him/her. The cost will be no consideration in terms of time or money. You will forget your own work and will be obsessed only with coins. Search, buy and present coins will be your main occupation. To see happiness on your beloved's face when you keep giving coins to him/her you will go to any extent possible. That is love. And that will tell your beloved that you are in love with him/her.

Now, how to know if the person we love is in love with us? How to know that my beloved reciprocates my love? Isn't the answer obvious? She/he will try to please me. She/ he will not be satisfied by getting the coins, but give me what I like. My darling would rather ask me not to bother with the coins at all, but get happiness from what she/he is giving me. Say for example, I love to add gadgets in my car. My darling will get me as many gadgets as my car can carry. On the other hand, I will on a coin-searching spree. That is love all about. It may sound crazy to those who have not experienced it, but it is the only way a person in love behaves.

Love is obsession. Romantic love recognizes no boundaries or logic. It is beyond all that. If you are in romantic love, your only goal will be please your beloved, and if your beloved reciprocates your love, his/her attempts will only be towards making you happy.

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